First-Time Fetish: Getting Started

Sexual fetishes are not uncommon. In fact, people can get turned on by anything, from objects to body parts, to actions. If you’re exploring a first-time fetish, here’s what you can do to get started.

Tips for Exploring Your First-Time Fetish

Exploring your fetish can be exciting, especially for the first time. It may also be intimidating if you don’t know what to do. If you need a little help with getting started, here are some useful tips to make things easier. 

Communicate

Even though we wish this could be the case, your partner can’t read your mind! Communicating with them and establishing boundaries is essential if you want to enjoy your kinks and fetishes. Tell them what you like and don’t like so the experience can be pleasurable for both of you. 

Take it Slow

You don’t want to rush into something new, so don’t be afraid to take things slow. Moving too quickly can be frustrating for you and your partner, and it takes away from the pleasure. As the saying goes – slow and steady wins the race! 

Understand Your Fetish

This is especially true if you have a fetish that isn’t widely known or understood. It wouldn’t hurt to look more into it to give you a better grasp on it. It’ll also help you learn to embrace it and even find other people who share your fetish. 

Explore it With Someone You Trust

Exploring your first-time fetish might be strange for some people, so make sure to do it with someone you know and trust. You should be able to easily communicate with this person, and they should be supportive of you and your desires. 

Have Fun

Ultimately, exploring your fetish should be a fun experience! You can’t get the most out of it if you aren’t enjoying it. Try your best to relax, so the moment doesn’t become too stressful for you or your partner.

Accessories to Help Explore Your Fetish

Exploring your fetish can be more enjoyable if you have the right clothing and accessories. We’ve listed a few items you might want to have if you’re ready to start introducing your desires to your partner during intimacy.

Spanking

Many people enjoy getting spanked, especially those with a fetish centered around the butt. If you’re into sadism, you’ll want to have this Studded Leather Whip handy for when your partner has been extra naughty!

You have to dress the part, too! Try wearing the Corinne Wetook Long Dress if you’re the one who likes getting spanked. This bold style reveals your entire back and thong, providing easy access for your partner. 

Bondage

Do you get aroused when someone ties you down and does whatever they want to you? You might enjoy some bondage play, and you need to have the right accessories for it. Try the Deluxe Hog Tie for the next time you’re feeling submissive. 

Feet

Foot fetishes are extremely common for most people. You’ll want to have the perfect pair of shoes that can show off your gorgeous feet. Try the Devious Stiletto Sandal to make them look even more desirable. 

If you’re looking for a dress that pairs well with your stilettos, try the Sakiko Mesh Panel Halter Body Dress for a more daring look. 

Role-Playing

Sexual role play is a turn-on for many, and it also makes things more interesting. If you like dressing up, you should try the 2-Piece Wetlook Top and Chaps Leggings Set to switch things up.

Blindfolds

Blindfolds might be a way to add some spice into the bedroom, but they’re also the ultimate sign of trust. When you wear one, it increases the element of surprise and intensifies your other senses. When your partner wears a blindfold, you become in total control.

If either of these sounds desirable to you, try using the Fetish Mask next time you and your partner want to get intimate.

Let SexyShoes Help You Make the Most of Your First-Time Fetish

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